Confidence Amid Doubt
How can you combat this?
Well this is something I have personally been battling with over the last, I would say, 3 years. I have given birth to two beautiful son-rays within that time. They, as with all of our kids, are true blessings, and make life worth living. On the flipside, the dream to grow my jewelry business had to take a backseat. Over that time period, I have had to "re-energize" that free-flowing, artistic, goddess spirit within me. Having a child can make you feel as if you're starting over physically and mentally. Shoot, it takes me a while to rid myself of that pregnancy 'brain fog'. That alone stunts my creative side, along with the fatigue. During this time, I had to learn how to build my confidence back up, while still pouring into those around me (husband and kids). I found this difficult to do at moments, since the amount of people that I was giving my time, energy, and love to had grown quite a bit in a short time period.
I am still a work in progress, of course, but I am definitely on track now, and my working-conclusion is that confidence isn’t about never feeling uncertain; it’s about trusting yourself despite those moments of uncertainty. When you know you’re walking in your purpose, especially with positive intentions, remember that you’ve been equipped with everything you need to succeed. Your unique experiences, skills, and passions have all been cultivated for this very path. Embrace the power of self-belief, knowing that you are capable of achieving what you set out to do, despite it not happening in your timeframe.
Challenges? Stay the Course
Doubt often arises when we face obstacles, but these challenges are a natural part of any worthwhile journey. Instead of seeing them as reasons to turn back, view them as opportunities for growth. Understand that the pursuit of something meaningful will always come with its share of difficulties, but the rewards far outweigh the hardships.
Acknowledge Doubt, But Don’t Let It Define You
It’s important to acknowledge your doubts—pretending they don’t exist won’t make them go away. However, don’t let them define your journey. Doubt is a natural emotion, but it doesn’t have to dictate your actions. When you feel uncertain, take a moment to reflect on your purpose and remind yourself why you started in the first place. Let your passion and commitment guide you through the doubt.
Celebrate Small Wins
Finally, remember to celebrate the small wins along the way. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. For me, I literally celebrate every single order that comes through my website or Etsy shop. These victories serve as reminders that you’re on the right path, reinforcing your confidence and helping to quiet any lingering doubts. By focusing on the positives and acknowledging your progress, you’ll find it easier to stay motivated in your journey.
You know you got this! Walking in your purpose with confidence is a trip of self-belief, resilience, and perseverance. Doubt may appear along the way, but it doesn’t have to dictate your path. Trust in your abilities and celebrate each step forward. In doing so, you’ll find that even the most challenging moments become opportunities to grow.
As Always.....Peace & Love
Nija Iris